As I've been going through the fall small group study on Sabbath, I've been struck by this intertwining theme of trust and rest. As we know, the 10 Commandments tell us to keep the Sabbath and to rest. And while physical rest is definitely important for the human race, I'm finding that the rest can be more related to my posture toward God.
I find that rest comes with trust.
But do I trust that he can carry me through difficult times? Am I willing to rest knowing that I can't do any more today? Where are the place that I fail to trust that God and give over the outcome to Him? Places like my children's school choice, the friends they make, the grades they receive, what they learn about God from me, or the character that is being cultivated in them?
Those are some tender places where my heart wants to trust that God is good. And will continue to be care for my children as they grow and even when I cannot be there. As I've continued to read Meredith Miller's book, I'm seeing how trust in God and His goodness is where my heart needs to be. She explains that connection and belonging bring us (and children) to trusting in God. Instead of trying to work toward obedience and perfection, but reminding myself of God's goodness, I can live into trust and rest. Easier said than done, but as I lean into God's character, I find that real rest is more accessible.
Parents often feel that rest is completely elusive and when it comes to actual sleep, I agree! But when I think about rest as a result of how I view God, it's a broader definition that encompasses my inner life and one that actually allows my spirit to take a breath, so to speak, and be re-energized.
What do you think about the connection of trust and rest? Does that ring true for you? Is there a place where trusting God would allow you to find greater peace and rest?
Matthew 11:28-30 (The Message)
“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”